Age old rant I've been holding back...
There was time when every time I asked for help or opinion about my characters (weather as a whole or individual) or art in general, they'd say, "do what pleases you." Thanks, but, I wouldn't be asking if I wasn't sure about my own decision. Like shooting a gun blind folded. Asking for others opinion "pleases me" because they may have a better idea then my own that I may just like and incorporate. That's why I'm asking!
So, yes, when I ask for help, please help. If you can't, that's fine.